There's no denying that our surroundings can have a significant impact on our mood and well-being. Our homes, in particular, are where we spend the majority of our time and where we seek refuge from the outside world. However, the impact of a well-designed home goes beyond just our day-to-day comfort; it can also have a significant impact on our love lives and ability to connect with other another in a fulfilling way.

A mindfully designed home can create an environment that supports intimacy, fosters connection, and enhances romance. The bedroom, in particular, is the most intimate space in our homes, and it's where many of us connect with our partners on a deeper level. It's the one space in our homes where we have permission to be our most vulnerable and yet all too often, it is a space that is neglected in the list of spaces to tackle. Despite this, it's a room that sets the tone for how we start and finish each day which is quite profound when you consider the domino effect this can have on your outlook when launching your morning or wrapping up a stressful day.

If you're room doesn't nurture or inspire you, you're not optimizing your full potential when your feet hit the floor to tackle each day. If you want to set yourself up for success, it starts in your most intimate nest. Form how we show up in the world with our colleagues and clients  to how we show up in the bedroom for ourselves and our lover, the bedroom plays a significant roll in setting the mood each and every day.

A well-designed bedroom should reflect your personal style and taste while also being conducive to relaxation and intimacy.

Soft lighting, comfortable bedding, and carefully chosen decor can create a warm and inviting atmosphere that sets the tone. However, a mindfully designed bedroom goes beyond just aesthetics.

The layout and functionality of the space are also crucial to creating an intimate environment. An uncluttered space with plenty of room to move around freely can help create a feeling of openness and connection.

Similarly, furniture placement can play a significant role in creating intimacy. Positioning the bed in the center of the room or facing a window with a beautiful view can create a sense of calm and tranquility, which is essential for a healthy and fulfilling love life. If you're lacking in the view department, a beautiful pieces of artwork can be a wonderful way to visually anchor a space. When spacing allows, accent chairs and benches are a lovely way to add some versatility to a space as well. One can never go wrong with a gorgeous reading chair that serves well for a strip tease front seat from time to time as well. 

When selecting your headboard and bed, ensure that the colours compliment your colouring. There is nothing more unfortunate than a beautiful hand made headboard that washes you out or clashes with your colouring. Colours can have a huge impact on our mood and emotions, so it's important to choose colors that make you feel calm and relaxed. Neutral colors like soft whites, beiges, and grays are often a safe choice, as they provide a soothing backdrop that can be easily accented with pops of colour. That said, a striking pop of colour on your headboard can do wonders for a space if you love more vibrant tones.

While some thrive in deep sultry jewel tones, others prefer a spa like fresh serenity to their spaces. There is no right or wrong approach to selecting your colour palette, the emphasis should be on what resonates the most with you. This is your home and your refuge, so lean into the colours and textures that inspire  you to create a sacred feeling refugee that will really nurture you each and every day.

When it comes to choosing your  bedding, staying away from busy duvet patterns will allow the emphasis to be on the overall flow and visual appeal of the space. Depending on your colour pallet, soft whites or a neutral french linen or organic neutral hues are almost always a safe bet. Utilizing toss pillows and throw blankets to add layers of visual interest and colour to create a sense of luxury is a wonderful way to create the overall mood you're wishing to achieve.  For those who prefer a more vibrant or bold color palette, don't be afraid to experiment with jewel tones or bright hues. However, it's important to balance these colors with more muted or neutral tones to avoid overwhelming the space.

The texture of your bedding can add depth and visual interest to your space. Consider mixing and matching textures to create a layered and dynamic look. Do you love the rustic appeal of a texture linen that reminds you of the Italian or french country side, or do you prefer the more opulent feel of velvet, silk or faux fur? Be sure to explore different options before choosing. You spend 1/3rd of your life in your bedroom, so you want to ensure that you love the choices you make.

Selecting the right elements for your space can be a daunting task, but it's an important one as it can set the tone for your entire bedroom. Your bedroom should be a reflection of your personal style and preferences, while also creating a cozy and inviting atmosphere. With so many different styles and options available, it's important to consider your own taste, the overall aesthetic of your bedroom, and your budget. 

Ultimately, the most important thing to consider when designing your bedroom is to choose the things that make you feel happy and comfortable. Whether you prefer a minimalist, clean-lined look or a more bohemian vibe, your bedroom should reflect your personal style and make you feel at ease in your space. So take your time, experiment with different colors and textures, and create a bedroom that feels like a true sanctuary.

If you’re an American, consider the benefits of working with a Canadian design firm. With strategically placed logistics teams across the US, we are able to offer exceptional digital design services with a white-glove approach. Upon request, we can also travel to meet your needs. Tax benefits also allow for maximizing budget equity in your home.